There are actually good and bad with selling from eBay and your own website. I've tried both. I'd say eBay is easy because literally the buyers come and look for you. The traffics is there and people browse on ebay for a reason, to buy.
With your own website, although you save on fees, there's really a lot of work need to get traffics to your site.
my advice is get on ebay first and expand to your own site, ecommerce or blog later on when your sales start to get stable for the long run.
i have not heard of dropshippingland. most of the wholesalers i've heard are reliable so far is worldwidebrands, salehoo or shopster.
just my two cents
hope it helps